Teenagers..and their Unpredictable Hormones.
Yes..I am returning after a long time to blogger..and yes,it's because I couldn't find something viable to write about.Thus I shall talk about teenagers and what their hormones make them do.
What I'm going to relate to are the mistakes,the "supposedly" life changing decisions,the to be or not to be algorithm...etc.Most of you might find it similar to your interior cluster of mixed up feelings and reminisce about how stupid you were about a year back.When you obsessed about the littlest of things that didn't even matter in life.I also know,that some of you have gone beyond teenage tomfoolery,that you have your whole life planned out in front of you, you make your decisions two days before you actually need to implement them..in short Adults.If so,I would suggest that you see this post like you would see a slapstick comedy movie,where you know that it doesn't make sense but somehow you still sit through it because your less matured friends have the capability to understand only these nonsensical forms of entertainment while you are off enjoying an extensive edition of Hamlet.
For starters,let us talk about the most dominant hormone in our body right know..Estrogen and Testosterone.These hormones make us feel that little mushy and warm element in our hearts when we see a girl/guy we like..and somehow this feeling doesn't last more than a month...in fact most of the time..it lasts like half a day and moves towards another beacon of intense attraction.But for the people who have temporarily settled on a beacon..well,my thought process below-:
And don't even get me started with people already in a relationship.God,the constant show of physical forms of affection(i.e hand holding, peeking at each other through the hallways and that creepy "way too long" stare).Just, tone it down will you?..I mean yeah I get the fact that your "eternally in love and shit" and I completely respect that but there are people here who are single and like to remain that way (if not by choice then by total disregard of the work that takes to maintain a proper relationship or just not accepting the fact that nobody likes social misfits).Now,I know people who work too hard on this relationship thing and then end up hurting themselves and others..and I mean quite literally.
To them I ask but one question "why do you think this gig will last forever??..I mean for godsake your like what..16?..17?..you don't even know who you like half the time and yet continue torturing yourself by engaging in a useless relationship that in the end is going to fall apart anyway!..and if in a one in a million chance you actually do find your soul mate at this age..just know that doing this shit to yourself and pushing things too far means that he/she is not the right person for you and he/she were??..it would eventually work out on it's own without the external drama."
Now..there are some people I genuinely cannot figure the hell out..yes,I'm talking about the angsty filled teens who are either morally depressed or halfheartedly suicidal...and it's not like the reasons they feel this way are somehow justified.The reasons may range from...oh,my boy/girl friend's cheating on me to oh,he'she didn't call me today and the special one "oh,my life sucks because no one understands my pain".What pain??..your whole freakin life is ahead of you!..you have new people to meet,the whole world to travel and make something of your life rather than dwell in these insignificant sorrows!!Nothing's ever permanent..it just feels like it is and when you think about this same situation 10 years later..the whole situation unraveling like it's true minute self right in your matured brain..you would know..that all these things mean nothing.Zilch..Zero..Nada.
Like Shakespeare once said "to thine own self be true".This one line..holds the answers to all our problems..no matter how big or monumental they are.If we could just self reflect on our decisions,we would be much better people and more importantly have less dilemmas in life.
DAYUM..this is one long post.More in part 2.
P.S-Could you relate?..or am I just ranting out every stupid thought in my brain..tell me what you think.
Good Day...my muddled humans.
What I'm going to relate to are the mistakes,the "supposedly" life changing decisions,the to be or not to be algorithm...etc.Most of you might find it similar to your interior cluster of mixed up feelings and reminisce about how stupid you were about a year back.When you obsessed about the littlest of things that didn't even matter in life.I also know,that some of you have gone beyond teenage tomfoolery,that you have your whole life planned out in front of you, you make your decisions two days before you actually need to implement them..in short Adults.If so,I would suggest that you see this post like you would see a slapstick comedy movie,where you know that it doesn't make sense but somehow you still sit through it because your less matured friends have the capability to understand only these nonsensical forms of entertainment while you are off enjoying an extensive edition of Hamlet.
For starters,let us talk about the most dominant hormone in our body right know..Estrogen and Testosterone.These hormones make us feel that little mushy and warm element in our hearts when we see a girl/guy we like..and somehow this feeling doesn't last more than a month...in fact most of the time..it lasts like half a day and moves towards another beacon of intense attraction.But for the people who have temporarily settled on a beacon..well,my thought process below-:
And don't even get me started with people already in a relationship.God,the constant show of physical forms of affection(i.e hand holding, peeking at each other through the hallways and that creepy "way too long" stare).Just, tone it down will you?..I mean yeah I get the fact that your "eternally in love and shit" and I completely respect that but there are people here who are single and like to remain that way (if not by choice then by total disregard of the work that takes to maintain a proper relationship or just not accepting the fact that nobody likes social misfits).Now,I know people who work too hard on this relationship thing and then end up hurting themselves and others..and I mean quite literally.
To them I ask but one question "why do you think this gig will last forever??..I mean for godsake your like what..16?..17?..you don't even know who you like half the time and yet continue torturing yourself by engaging in a useless relationship that in the end is going to fall apart anyway!..and if in a one in a million chance you actually do find your soul mate at this age..just know that doing this shit to yourself and pushing things too far means that he/she is not the right person for you and he/she were??..it would eventually work out on it's own without the external drama."
Now..there are some people I genuinely cannot figure the hell out..yes,I'm talking about the angsty filled teens who are either morally depressed or halfheartedly suicidal...and it's not like the reasons they feel this way are somehow justified.The reasons may range from...oh,my boy/girl friend's cheating on me to oh,he'she didn't call me today and the special one "oh,my life sucks because no one understands my pain".What pain??..your whole freakin life is ahead of you!..you have new people to meet,the whole world to travel and make something of your life rather than dwell in these insignificant sorrows!!Nothing's ever permanent..it just feels like it is and when you think about this same situation 10 years later..the whole situation unraveling like it's true minute self right in your matured brain..you would know..that all these things mean nothing.Zilch..Zero..Nada.
Like Shakespeare once said "to thine own self be true".This one line..holds the answers to all our problems..no matter how big or monumental they are.If we could just self reflect on our decisions,we would be much better people and more importantly have less dilemmas in life.
DAYUM..this is one long post.More in part 2.
P.S-Could you relate?..or am I just ranting out every stupid thought in my brain..tell me what you think.
Good Day...my muddled humans.
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